Sunday, January 22, 2012

Sunday 1/22/12

I had to deal with a tough thing this week but it went well. Friday afternoon I picked up Jon's ashes from the anatomy board. I was having a hard time preparing for it and was a little nervous about how I would feel doing it. Once I arrived at the building it was a numb feeling, almost like this is a job, this isn't Jon he isn't here. I dealt with people that knew nothing about about me or him, and it made it easier. I showed my drivers license, and signed in. Went where the guard told me to go, signed another paper and then they were mine. It was strange to think about what I was holding but I immediately became very protective over this box. I plan to have the ashes buried in westminster in the spring.

I also did not get to have my appointment for Baby Bruce because my Dr. had a delivery. It is rescheduled for this week. 

The rest of my weekend has been filled with lots of surprises…3 surprise parties! Happy 16th birthday to Claudia Dorsey, Happy 30th Birthday to Joe Fiorani, and today I will help surprise my grandparents as they celebrate their 60th wedding anniversary! It has been a happy weekend which was needed after Friday. 

I will also be rooting for the Raven's today for Jon he would be so excited that they have made it this far, and he would be pretty impressed with all the nice things I have been saying about the Ravens. For those that don't know, I am a REDSKINS fan all the way! However I made a promise with Jon a few years ago, once the Redskins season was finished if the Raven's were still going I would support my home team. These past few weeks I have been fully supporting the Raven's for Jon. I hope this is the year they win the super bowl for him :)

This is a picture taken last year when again, the Redskins coudn't get their act together. He lent me his Ray Rice jersey for the day. He was very happy to see me wearing black and purple. I was still a little unsure how I felt about the black and purple at the time. This year I am 100% okay with it :)

GO RAVENS!



Wednesday, January 18, 2012

I was sent this email, and felt the need to share it

You never know when something like this will happen and when it does it makes me think of him and smile from ear to ear! :D

This email reminded me of Jon because it had to do with baseball a child with disabilities. He loved both of them :)


Two Choices

What would you do?...you make the choice. Don't look for a punch line, there   isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made the same   choice?

At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with learning   disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would   never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its

Dedicated staff, he offered a question:

'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does, is   done with perfection.

Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand   things as other children do.

Where is the natural order of things in my son?'



The audience was stilled by the query.



The father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, who was   mentally and physically disabled comes into the world, an opportunity to   realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other   people treat that child.'

Then he told the following story:



Shay and I had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing   baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' I knew that most of   the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but as a father I also understood that if my son were   allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some   confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.



I approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if   Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, 'We're losing   by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our   team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning..'



Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a   team shirt. I watched with a small tear in my eye and warmth in my heart. The   boys saw my joy at my son being accepted.

In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was   still behind by three.

In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right   field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be   in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as I waved to him from   the stands.

In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again.

Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on   base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.



At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the   game?

Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but   impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much   less connect with the ball.



However, as Shay stepped up to the

Plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside   for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in   softly so Shay could at least make contact.

The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed.

The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards   Shay.

As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right   back to the pitcher.



The game would now be over.

The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball   to the first baseman.

Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game..



Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out   of reach of all team mates.

Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to first!

Run to first!'

Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base.

He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.



Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!'

Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and   struggling to make it to the base.

By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball   . The smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero   for his team.

He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he   understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball   high and far over the third-baseman's head.

Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled   the bases toward home.



All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'



Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by   turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third!

Shay, run to third!'



As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on   their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!'

Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit   the grand slam and won the game for his team



'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, 'the   boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this   world'.



Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never   forgotten being the hero and making me so happy, and coming home and seeing   his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!



A wise man once said every society is judged by how it treats it's least   fortunate amongst them.



You now have two choices:

1. Delete

2. Forward
  May your day be a Shay Day.





  MAY GOD BLESS   EVERYONE WHO



  DECIDES TO PASS THIS   ON IN      MEMORY OF SHAY..............











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Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Thank you

I received a wonderful gift in the mail, I have no idea who it was from. I hope they read this post and know that it was greatly appreciated! I enjoyed a saturday afternoon with people I love getting a pedicure.

I have done a little detective work and know that it is someone who knows me very well, because they went to my normal salon, and knew how to spell my name correctly, the whole thing! My name is a tough one, that is when I knew Jon was a keeper when he could spell my name correctly with out looking at it :)

So I hope the person who sent me such a generous gift reads this. If you know who it was please make sure to tell them to read this.

Thank you so much for my gift certificate!

Monday, January 16, 2012

Been a few weeks

I have been crazy busy these last few weeks with work and friends. January has been fun so far! I have been seeing more friends, which is always a good thing. I also started going to the gym a few times a week to try to take off some of this extra weight I have gained...just kidding! I have only been walking. Even though I only walk on the treadmill, it really feels good to be active. I still feel pretty good overall but have notice my back hurting a little and my ankles starting to swell a bit--both normal things to be expected. Baby Bruce has been VERY active. She likes to move around A LOT! I have noticed now that I can see her movements from the outside which is crazy to see. I had my last appointment on January 5th. Everything went great. Every time I go, they listen for her heartbeat, and the last few times while listening she has kicked right where the doppler was. This last time I  actually saw my stomach move and the doppler get kicked! I have another appointment this Friday, so hopefully she will be kicking again.

The nursery has one coat of paint on it! I held up progress trying to decide if the color was too bright. Since then, I have decided to keep it "Haystack" and hope that we will not need sunglasses every time we go in there. Once it starts to come together, I will post pictures :)

Have a good week! I will try to post another update after this week's appointment.